Saturday, June 18, 2011

Gathering at Guo Hao's place - 18th June 2011



Now then I realise JinRong and PeiSoon were wearing the same shirt! I wonder what Ayken and Daniel were trying to tell each other..

Monday, January 3, 2011

新的一年

小時候, 新的一年意味著許多‘新’的事物:新的班級、新的課本、新的老師、新的校服、校鞋、還有最重要的(對當時的我而言) - 新的書包。家境不算很好,一個書包得撐足一年,成績好的話, 新書包就有着落了。 還依稀記得自己每年都得花上好幾天, 才能順利地寫上正確的年份。 一整年下來, 生活按著學期非常有規律。 突然好懷念求學那段日子!



踏入社會工作以後, 新的一年就少了那份喜悅和期盼。 或許有些人還會坐下來回顧過去一年所發生的事, 展望新的一年, 對自己許下什麽承諾 - 新的一年裏該多做什麽, 少做什麽, 不做什麽。 我似乎曾經也作過這等事,但也漸漸開始明白, 人的牽絆實在太多了。 除非你下定決心一意孤行,不去理會在乎的人的想法和感受, 不然的話, 想做的事並不一定就能做得到。 久了,每年列出的承諾少了。 如果你現在問我, 明年有什麽想做的事, 我是著實沒辦法給你一個完整或滿意的答復。



現在的我,倒是真正的體會到作爲一個女兒、妻子、母親, 對新的一年的期許:

一家平安、健康。

心境平和、知足。

緊記感恩、施福。



新年快樂, 自己詮釋的那一份快樂!

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

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it has been 4 years since you left us.. may you rest in peace WK.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Isaac the little driver @ 13 months!

Sorry for not posting any updates for such a loooonnnngggg time! Here are some clips and pictures of the little fella for you to enjoy!


Saturday, December 19, 2009

Ayken's full month celebration

Thanx to all who came to my baby Ayken's full month celebration. Here are some pictures taken (I was the stand-in photographer since KC could not make it, please pardon the unskillfulness!)

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Not sure if this family combination would work.
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Ning: Soon, let's just adopt Kaven to spare me the pain of bearing a second boy.

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Little Daniel's got the look.
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Here's two of the three Mr K's.

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She tried to make friends with Ayken, what a sweet girl!
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Next time I had better ask daddy to bring the latest DVDs to watch. "UP" is booooooring..

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And of course, the star of the day!

Sunday, November 15, 2009

怀念.伟强

大家还记得吗?再过两天,即11月17日,就是伟强离开我们的第三周年.

今早到灵前祭拜还有些鼻酸与失落的感觉,还有那么一点点的不可思议.如果有人说他出国公干要再过几年才能回国,我想我会比较容易接受.

anyway大伙都有update近况.我也为可爱的芸萱拍了个照.这小妮子还蛮有性格的,但也象哥哥靖衡一样不爱说话.

芸萱与腼腆

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Support Changfu in Operation Vannakam

我的朋友, 我的同学, 我最爱的一切

To begin, I would like to say a big thank you for being my friend these years. We may not meet and talk often as we understand we have our lives to lead and responsibilities to bear. I am writing this to you to seek your support in Operation Vannakam.

My team and I will be leaving this June for this expedition to help build a hospital in a remote village near Nigilri Mountains, INDIA. This might be my final expedition (overseas) due to personal commitment and health reasons.

I would want to make sure the two underprivileged youth from my team (one from Boy’s Town and one from Movement for Intellectually Disabled, MINDS) will not be denied of this opportunity to help the needies in India as well as to help themselves in terms of character building and self worth.

You can help me and my team by donating money and/or buying our expedition T-shirts that we will be selling in a few weeks. We will be overjoyed if you could also spread the kind words among your friends and collegues to convince them to chip in as well.

I can be reached at 96849275 and yangtionghock@hotmail.com.

Looking forward to your generosity



Sincerely yours,

Changfu,

For more information about this expedition, please visit http://www.raleigh.org.sg/expedition/

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Faith

I think Everything is nothing, including faith.

Nothing itself is arbiturary. including this thought.

When mortals like us reached a consensus, nothing becomes everything.

And Everything is us.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Just a Note part 2

it's the time for remembrance again. i guess it's good that i have not woken up late at night just to pen this..

shall we all make it this sunday 10am? let's see..

Sunday, August 3, 2008

Council Reunion 2008

Great evening. Long-live Speedy Gonzalez!
I hope it won't be too long before our next gathering.



Monday, June 30, 2008

Thoughts on Euro

So finally, Spain has erased 44 years of heartache to clinch the European Championships in style, courtesy of a Fernando Torres goal.

Except for this morning's final, I haven't watched a single match at the just-over Euro2008 (I don't have a TV, and the final match was watched at a friend's house). Do I miss all the action? Sadly, not much. I can still have a daily dosage of football action on the internet and in newspapers, and still have my sleep.

Call it aging, or change of priorities, or a stronger allegiance to club football (to be more specific, Liverpool), international matches that used to have me pumping with excitement no longer can defeat the lure of the sleeping bug, except when it comes to the Champions League or Premier League games that involve Liverpool.

I can still remember 2005, the year Liverpool last won the Champions League, I was so excited after the game that I went to have breakfast in the rainy aftermath at around 6am in a near-deserted hawker centre and tasted buns so fresh and hot that the cheese literally melted in my mouth.

That was one of the sweetest breakfast I've ever tasted, not only because Liverpool won, but also because during the 120 minutes my friends and I were cheering and exchanging SMS messages, we've stopped worrying about work, the next promotion, the next instalment, and to become boys again.

Friday, June 27, 2008

Losing a Part of Me

Somehow this image of Cherian George (the ST journalist) on TV, telling the audience that where he was at now, which was under an expressway flyover (looked like PIE to me, hehe), was where his old house once stood, just kept playing in my head. It was an image that brought out sadness and a sense of resignation. For a country that prides itself to have catapulted from third world to first in 30 years, we have, in the process of economic advancement, sacrificed much of our heritage. Buildings, landmarks, language, culture...

放眼世界,心系祖国 was the slogan used not too long ago, to encourage our people towards globalisation, to go far beyond our shores to make our mark (i.e. make money), but to forge strong ties with our motherland. I have always agreed with hubby that patriotic ties towards one's country have to be forged through one's feelings towards the country, rooted by 人,景,物 (people, scenery/surroundings, tangible things). Except for the first (but even people come with an 'expiry date'), the things and surroundings in Singapore are always changing.

Today marks the day that I officially lose a part of me, my 景,物. It is the flat that I have lived for a good 26 years (and for my parents, 33 years) before I got married and got my own flat. The land where my parents' flat sits on was 'acquired' by the government two years back, i.e. en-bloc, so my parents have no choice but to move out of the flat where they have lived a good part of their lives and raised all their four children. All because this block of flat sits on prime land, and the land would most probably be used for some private housing project which will bring in the MONEY. For the sake of economic development, my fellow Singaporeans. Or else we will never be a step ahead of our neighbours...

I come from a humble, lower-middle class family. My precious flat was a humble 3-room flat, and it cost my parents $13,000 then, in 1975. My flat has always been overcrowded, for as long as I could remember. For the first 10 years of my life, the flat was occupied by my parents, my younger brother and I, my maternal grandmother, my uncle (mum's brother), and my cousin (a young lady who was taken in by my grandmother when she was very young). 7 people living in a 3-room flat, happily. :-) Then my uncle got married, and grandma and cousin moved in with him. At about the same time, my mum gave birth to my 2nd brother and youngest sister. 7-3+2=6.

We never had a sofa in the living room, not till 10 years later, I think. I remember the black-and-white TV set which had this set of sliding doors to protect the TV screen, and two huge speaker panels on either side of the screen. It was littered with stickers, I remembered. Stickers that my brother and I got from snacks we bought, like Kaka and Twisties. Hahahaha! We did have a huge dining table where the whole family gathers for makan, where my brother and I played games like 'house', 'library' under it, played table tennis on it (no joke), and where we did homework on.

I have never had the luxury of my own room... erm, do the maths and you will understand why. But we could always devise ways to mark out our 'territory', and maintain privacy (to the best of our ability!) whilst living under one roof. One bookshelf will be sub-divided amongst us -- ok I get the top 2 shelves, bro gets the other 2, the last one is for public usage. The same goes for our wardrobe, our cabinets, the reading table, etc.

There were hardly any secrets in the family... I mean, it was kind of hard to have secrets when there's just so much space between one another at any one time. So I could be on the phone embroiled in a heated quarrel with my friend/boyfriend, and the rest of the family would try to stay as quiet as possible, and try as hard as they can to pretend that they cannot hear what was being said. Hahahaha, those were the days.

People have always commented that my family is a really close-knit one. Well, if anything, space (the lack of it, to be exact) definitely plays an important role in making us close-knit! Wonderful memories of my childhood, my adolescence... would have loved to document more, like having the whole of my sec 4 class come over my humble abode for a song practice coz the church we were supposed to go to was out of bounds, and the nearest house with a piano was mine!?!?

Well, whatever it is, today is the last day I set my eyes on the dear old flat. The heart still aches, and it will continue to till the memories of it fade, together with the people who have once called it home.

Wretched,
A.

Thursday, June 5, 2008

Children See, Children Do

responding to some older posts ...................

children see, children do

Saturday, May 17, 2008

Council Reunion 2008 - 17 May Updates

Yup, it's here again! :D

From: Council Reunion 2008

Dear Former Councillors and Council Teachers

The ticket ordering deadline is on the 31st of May. This leaves you about 2 more weeks to order your tickets, if you have not done so already! The details of the event are:


Date: 2nd August 2008

Time: Registration at 5:30; seating by 6:45pm

Venue: Hwa Chong Institution [College Section] Air Conditioned Multi-Purpose Hall

Ticket price: $50, student discount of $25 [applicable for current JC/university students]

Deadline: 31st May, 2008, midnight.


We have received very unenthusiastic response from the teachers. Teachers, please book your tickets today! You're not required to form a table as there will be a teacher's table. We hope that former councillors can help to persuade their respective teachers to come, as we are certain that their presence will make a huge difference!


If you don't already know, we are also tracking down the composers and choreographers of various songs, dances or cheers which have become part and parcel of the Hwa Chong school culture and council culture all these years. If you, or someone you might know, were involved in the composition or choreography of any of these, please let us know. It would be a great honour to have the creator of every song or dance to lead generations of councillors in what has become so integral to our council experience!


College Mass Dances:

  • I've Got My Mind Set On You
  • Beechwood
  • Together in Electric Dreams
  • Wild Wild West
  • Time of Your Life

Council Dances:

  • Speedy Gonzales
  • Black Cat
  • Give It To Me

College Songs:

  • 唱一首华初的歌
  • 心旅
  • 情真情深
  • 也是深情
  • 只为那爱我愿
  • 当你孤单你会想起谁: [this was an adaptation from a commercial song, but we'd like to find who initiated it and added the extra lines]
  • 细水长流: [commercial song]
  • Never Forget: This is a new [English!] song composed by a non-councillor, but the recent batches will sing and introduce it to everyone

Council Songs:

  • 黄城 [Official Council Song]

Council Cheers

  • Ai Bi Mai Bi
  • Makan cheer

If you remember any other mass dances or songs that were once upon a time part of the Hwa Chong college spirit, we welcome you to share them with us!



Current ticket sales:

  • 1st – 10
  • 3rd - 2 tables
  • 6th - 1.5 tables
  • 7th – 30
  • 8th/9th - = 25
  • 10th - 22
  • 11th – 27
  • 13th - 1 table
  • 19th – 17
  • 25th – 17
  • 27th - 25
  • 34th – 42

We're aiming for at least 1 table per batch, and there will be a prize for the greatest batch turnout from each decade. Probably the biggest gathering of councillors in the world - Will YOU be there?


Other things that YOU can be part of:

1. Photos and memorabilia

2. Performers for the evening

3. Advertisers for the programme booklet

More information can be found at www.councilreunion08.webs.com. Please email ticketing.councilreuion08@gmail.com for ticketing enquiries and councireunion08@gmail.com for general enquiries.

Council Reunion 2008 Organising Committee